It’ll happen when it’s meant too!



 So i spend a lot of time answering questions about ‘curriculum levels’ in relation to HE. People are obsessed with whether one child is meeting the same levels and standards as another when the truth is they’ll all get there as and when they are meant to. 

My eldest child likes to read and was never pushed always encouraged My youngest child likes to be read too. Theres been lots of conversation around why he doesn't like to read himself and to be honest i think its two fold - one he is the youngest so theres always someone to do it for him. Two he likes the comfort of being read too. HE enjoys being close to someone and snuggling in for a good story. 

There is nothing wrong with that. 

Recently though theres been a bit of outside shoving about him reading independently and its been quite hard to stay strong and just say he will when he is ready. It was spot on! 

This week we were preparing to go out and i was finishing breakfast. He was sat at the table and there were books out (theres always books out) but he picked up a new set and asked if he could open it. Of course i said yes thinking he would flick through it and then put it down. Instead he started reading it, actually reading the pages and was interested. 

I watched with  interest as he reached a word he was stuck on and was starting to sound out, fascinated that it just happened. He was doing great when the oldest lent over and helped him out. Next thing they are reading it together and laughing out loud!

So whatever it is, bike riding, speaking out loud or reading - It will happen when it’s meant too! 

All hail the amazing Dog Man 


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